| Wanting To Belong

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    If we are overly wanting to belong to a peer group, club, or organisation, and yet we find it difficult to fit in, or be accepted, then the group is probably too small for us. It is too small-minded, too limiting for our expression, and therefore any resulting upset at our not being accepted, is likely to be based on belittling and underestimating ourselves, whilst overestimating the group.

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